This may seem a little obvious, but it’s rarely given the proper amount of attention. With texting now the default method of communication (and an absolute godsend for game), the time between text messages from both sexes is a very accurate measurement of interest. Simply put, the longer it takes for a girl to respond to your text message, the lower her interest level and vice versa.
In general you only want to spend your time with girls of high interest, but knowing where you fall in her line of suitors has its uses. As soon as you have options, it’s natural to begin prioritizing and due to the higher biological value of egg vs. sperm, women – on the whole – have more options than men. It’s possible to flip the script by becoming high value (alpha) yourself, but in most cases you’re competing with other males for her attention.
If a girl consistently takes longer to send or reply to your texts, she has the upper hand. So how do you get the ball back in your court? Fight fire with fire. Spend longer (or the same amount of time) replying to her. Contrary to popular belief, this doesn’t reduce her interest. If it seems to, it was never high to begin with. Girl #51 and I text every couple days or so and I have no intention of changing that. I understand her situation. She’s made it very clear she enjoys the chase and the non-committal alpha banging that a typical 22 year old party girl would. I’m ok with this, but it needs to be handled a certain way to keep attraction on the rise. Her interest level is high enough for continued plowing, but she’s not looking for anything serious so there’s no reason to text more.
If your goal is to build and maintain a high interest harem, calibrating your text timing helps, especially with girls you’ve already slept with. Take a bit longer to text them back. End the conversation always. Go MIA for short bursts of time. Occasionally you’ll meet your match with a girl who plays a similar game and when it happens, thank the lucky stars – you’ve just been presented with a great learning opportunity to tighten your game.
However, don’t make the mistake of questioning a girl why she’s not responding to your texts in a timely manner. Doing so will remove whatever interest remains. You’ll hear excuses like: I was busy, my battery died, I didn’t have my phone on me, I was at work, I was in a meeting, I was on the phone, the list is endless. And 99% of the time it’s white noise. Girls sleep next to their phones. If her interest is high enough, you can safely ignore her for a week, text her once, and she’ll reply within seconds. Keyword: high enough.
Remember this dynamic at all times and use it to your advantage.