In the midst of daily routine we often forget that there’s an entire world of people and things to do beyond our little shell. When it comes to women, adopting an abundance mentality is critical to success. What does this mean?
For every woman, no matter how special she seems, there are others just as (if not more) special. There’s a world of them out there, and you will never run out.
This isn’t to say you shouldn’t commit to girl who does it for you. On the contrary, if she’s the hottest thing since sliced bread and has an amiable personality (and you’re generally on the same page), see where it goes.
However, what this means is that should said girl start behaving poorly on a consistent basis and you no longer see eye to eye, it may be time to re-evaluate. Internalizing this attitude from the get go will guarantee a better love life.
And this isn’t just with women. In fact, if you approach all of life knowing – often from prior experience – that there’s always more out there for the taking, happiness will find you. Most people spend their entire existence in the same small radius because it’s convenient, never stepping out of their comfort zone until it’s too late. But there are cities, countries, cultures, careers, hobbies, people, entire micro-worlds beyond what most know.
Of course you can’t do everything and should focus your time and energy on a small priority set, but if you look within and realize you’re unhappy with your job, your girlfriend, your lack of a girlfriend, your sex life, your social circle, your health, etc – change. Try something else. Go somewhere else. Meet someone new. It’s only when you take these ‘huge’ leaps of faith (saying hi to a cute girl is terrifying enough for most guys) that you realize it was no big deal, and usually end up kicking yourself for not having done it sooner.
Don’t forget it. Perform this mental exercise in all you do, couple it with action, and you’ll be amazed at what you achieve and how quickly.
Go get what you’re worth.