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Objectification, Shortcuts, And Love

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In the midst of figuring out different ways to get yours, the basics are often forgotten or at least conveniently ignored. It’s time to refresh how each sex views each other.

Woman = sex object.

Man = success object.

Obvious right? But how often we stray from this basic premise, complicating the simple elegance of what is.

The Sex Object

A woman’s primary, and only real form of power in this world is her beauty (and by extension, youth). So long as we remain human, this will never change. No amount of college degrees, high status positions, undeserved salaries, feminist outbursts, ‘equality’ laws, shaming tactics, cougars, or any other form of brainwashing can overcome what we see with our eyes.

Naturally men seek secondary traits for commitment such as loyalty, modesty, femininity (‘girliness’), some degree of intelligence, lack of pre-existing children, and so on, but without an acceptable level of beauty – what that man thinks he’s capable of attaining – none of this comes into consideration.

If you’re fat and ugly, men don’t want you. Period. You may still get some and delude yourself into believing otherwise, but you’ll never, ever, have the kind of man you desire because you’re not the kind of woman he desires. You can’t force someone to be attracted to you, no matter how nice, loyal, funny, whatever you happen to be. It’s a shame that western civilization is ballooning at such an exponential rate; these women have no chance at happiness, which they won’t realize until it’s too late. Or spend their entire lives keeping nasty thoughts locked up.

Ladies – even if you get the short stick (unattractive face), you’re not completely SOL. Not most of you anyway. Forget the promise of independence and ‘getting whatever you want’ through corporate ascension. We don’t care. Your accomplishments are only impressive if you’re hot. Keep climbing and you’ll find nothing but misery and bitterness at the apex when you realize that men are indifferent to your socioeconomic success.

Maintain a slim figure, use makeup wisely, save a few bucks to have some work done, develop an amicable personality, and secure what you reasonably believe to be the best you can get before you’re too old to compete with the next wave of nubile youngsters. It’s asking a lot, I know, but it’ll do more for you than years of ‘doing what you have to’ to move up.

The Success Object

A man’s form of power is more dispersed. The 5 main traits of alpha – wealth, status, looks, fame, game – are under greater personal control. However, it’s equalized with a woman’s narrower scope of power due to the biological value of egg (expensive) vs. sperm (cheap). Men are expendable. We fight from the day we’re born. Most of us start with nothing and have to beat out the rest to ascend. The poon waiting at the top is the prize for years – nay decades – of self sacrifice.

While it’s true that modern women at various stages of their lives are ‘attracted’ to different things as conditions necessitate, it’s nothing more than preferential weighing of the 5 traits. A 6 pack and big arms works on all women, but younger girls in their prime are more likely to act upon these urges than single moms on the other side of 30, who all of a sudden become more practical.

Still, a spreading of the legs is directly proportional to your success in these 5 areas. A good looking, ripped, rich, high status man who’s not socially awkward will be passed around town in a hurry.

If you’re unsuccessful, hot women don’t want you – they can do better. And let’s not use lower rung examples as anything other than what they are: exceptions, particularly when you look at the big picture. Drug dealers in the hood with no real prospects can get some through game, local status, and throwing a bit of money around (along with supplying the product), but they’ll never swim in the top gene pool with any regularity.

Men – I talk over and over and over until I want to puke about self improvement, not only for your own sake but as a ‘passive’ means of attracting women. It’s a win-win. Learn game – the attitudinal shift is a mandatory mindset for the challenges of life – but see it for what it is: a single piece of the puzzle. Hit the gym, get your body right. You can’t do much about your face, but groom well. Get some clothes that fit you and stay away from Walmart. Learn how to save money. Building true wealth is a lifelong process, so get started now. Whatever craft you choose, excel in it. Become the top dog. The local status may one day transform into broader fame. Do this relentlessly, consistently, day in and day out for years on end and you will reap the benefits.

Shortcuts

In any competitive market, it’s natural to seek the path of least resistance, especially with greater competition. Beyond the obvious (makeup and augmentation for women, game for men, and lying for both), shortcuts abound daily. They’re primarily passive aggressive attempts at swinging control of the sexual market into the favor of the aggressor. Shaming is #1. ‘Men are shallow’. ‘Women only care about my wallet’. I say attempts because they’re only temporarily able to circumvent the harsh truth: there are no lasting shortcuts. Reaching the top – and staying there – is a constant battle for both sexes.

Women have to beat out other women, lamenting that the men they really want – the super alphas – will never settle for just one (not for long anyway) because they don’t have to. Given the realistic choice of one hot woman or several, men will take the latter.

Men have to beat out other men to get to the top, lamenting that women get their cake and eat it too while guys in their formative years go crazy with blue balls and often self destruct before screwing their heads on right and realizing their time will come, if only they focus on longer lasting success.

No one has it easy, not forever.

Love

And so we come to ‘love’, the ultimate weapon in the battle for sexual supremacy. Does love conquer all? Hardly.

How many women are ‘in love’ with their man only to leave him once he loses his job and a convenient upgrade appears?

How many men are ‘in love’ with their woman until she ages and porks out only to leave (or cheat) when a younger, hotter, tighter prospect dangles some T&A?

Discussion of love is a series of posts in its own, but don’t be fooled by emotions and declarations of feelings. While they may be genuine, the sex/success law never falters. Follow it and you’ll find happiness. Ignore it and you’ll be miserable. Simple enough?

Attraction Is A Choice – It Can Be Created

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Several years ago I read David DeAngelo’s Double Your Dating. Although a few of the concepts presented are flawed or incomplete, at the time I was starting from scratch so I soaked it up, and to be fair he gives some solid tips for beginners. His famous line is ‘attraction is not a choice’. On the surface the rationale is sound. A lot of times a girl can’t logically tell you why she’s attracted to a guy beyond listing symptoms – he’s hot, sweet, he ‘gets me’, the way he carries himself, blah blah.

Where this gets mixed up is the assumption that you either have it or you don’t. You’re either attractive or you’re not. If that were true, there would be no point in chasing wealth, fame, status, looks, or learning game.

Attraction can be created. Therefore, it is a choice. A choice you make to become more attractive.

Exhibit A – manufactured fame:

The girls aren’t necessarily swarming him because their panties are soaked, but I would bet my paycheck that if he kept up the act he’d be getting laid that night. Now, I’m not endorsing faking your way as a long term strategy because, well, it’s not sustainable (though faking it til you make it – with emphasis on making it – is sound). But it goes to show that as a man, you are in control of your sexual market value.

Examine the 5 main traits of alpha – looks, wealth, status, fame, and game – and how each one is a choice you make:

Looks – her panties get wet once she sees your arms, feels your strength, and touches your 6 pack. Manufactured by you.

Wealth – sure you can call them gold diggers, but ultimately penetration is all that counts. She may ‘love’ you for your money, but does it really make a difference? Manufactured by you.

Status/Fame – (status is a subset of fame) as you can see in the video, no further explanation is required. Manufactured by you, either as the above prank or bona fide.

Game – the attitude girls love. This is what they mean by ‘he gets me, he’s not a pushover, I like his style, he’s sweet, he’s exciting, etc’. Guess what – manufactured by you.

Although a lot of guys intuitively know this, there are still way too many who think ‘she should just like me for me’ and as a result take the easy path of inaction, later wondering why they can’t get any.

The entire premise of this site is to become a more attractive (and therefore higher value) man. Yes, it will bring you happiness.

Makeup Is Worse Than Game

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Makeup is worse than Game, so should we ban makeup?

Game – alpha mimicry, charisma, psychosocial dominance – take your pick.

Makeup – facial cosmetics and overall presentation (plastic surgery, push-up bras, extensions, etc).

The most common attacks against game, (ironically) mostly hurled by men who have little, posit that it’s manipulative, immoral, a big lie, psychopathic, sociopathic, and any other number of negative adjectives. This backlash usually stems from 3 things:

  1. Ego preservation and a justification of one’s precious paradigm, or taking a self-professed higher ground and a belief that if you ‘just be yourself’ everything will fall into place, that the world rewards the purest truth.
  2. Lack of game, or living in a constant state of butthurt. What’s the default response when a girl you like chooses someone else? Assume either (or both) of them have some deficiency, that she made the wrong choice, and that you were better anyway. It’s much harder to admit that maybe you suck and got outplayed.
  3. Misunderstanding of game, or assuming that manipulation – taking certain actions to create desired reactions – is somehow wrong. A child can manipulate a parent to buy them a toy, or ice cream, or candy – is that wrong?

Regardless, the concept of game is viewed by a large percentage of both genders in a negative light. Coming from women the recoil is expected as it makes their selection process more challenging. For a man to be willing to drop his pants only one prerequisite exists: she has to be hot (commitment is another story). For a woman, the checklist is a lot longer due to the higher risk of pregnancy.

Rather than discussing why game is good in all manner of relationships, let’s pretend that it is in fact a terrible misogynistic invention of the patriarchy and a big fat lie.

In that case, what’s makeup?

What truth does makeup convey?

Are breast augmentations, high heels, hair extensions, lipstick, low-cut tops, and eyeliner not manipulative?

Does it not cloud logical reasoning?

Or is it also a big fat lie?

At least game has truth at its core. It’s behavioral modification that leads to a personality shift, turning an awkward beta who can’t approach a cute girl without fumbling a dozen times into a bona fide lady-killer through years of deliberate effort. And what’s the result? A man sure of himself who can get what he wants from life, whether that be a dream job, a dream girl, a respectable notch count, a better marriage, or any other desire.

What does makeup lead to? Regret the morning after. So while bashing game, take the log out of your own eye and direct your attention to the female manipulation that has existed since the dawn of civilization.

PS. Game: 1, Makeup: 0

Grown Women Fall For Stability

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As I was going through my list of 100+ topics to write about, I decided to check Facebook as my phone refused to stop vibrating. Lo and behold, I come across a screen cap re-tweet of this little gem in my feed. While disgustingly beta, there’s a stockpile of maxims, shaming language, and lessons to be extracted. What prompted me to write about it was the number and expediency with which it was re-tweeted, posted to Facebook, and subsequently ‘liked’ by herbs and ‘grown women’. This is beyond juicy. How could any female not agree with it? Let’s dig in – coffee sip -.

Lil girls fall for looks and swag.

Notice how each sentence begins with subtle shaming aimed at subduing an uncomfortable truth. ‘Lil girls’ in this case being primarily high school and early college. High school is all about looks, status, and swag. If you play a rough sport, you’re in; all you have to be is hot. It’s a ruthless, raw form of alpha-beta dynamics without all the fluff that comes into play later, so if you’re not one of the few scoring all the top notch poon, you’ll be quick to label them as lil girls, as if they’re too immature to see how valuable you really are.

‘She’ll come around one day when she’s grown up and values me for me’. Sure, when she’s 30 (or is it 40 now?) – when she’s had her fill of alpha cock and mother nature is impatiently stomping her feet.

So, avoid lil girls (the same fertile, sexy specimens responsible for your instaboner) because they’re immature and only care about appearance? Nah. It’s poorly disguised contempt for not being able to attract said hotties. If you don’t have the looks, the swag, or other status components, it’s an expected response.

Basic chicks fall for money.

More shaming language. ‘Basic’ implying they are somehow ‘shallow’ and lacking multiple dimensions. Newsflash: everyone’s favorite color is green. It’s just another metric by which alpha is measured, but if you’re broke nothing is easier than rationalizing that only basic chicks fall for money. A more difficult task is to admit you’re broke, that it’s your fault, and then do something about it.

I never met an ugly trophy wife and generally speaking, the higher income venues you frequent, the more attractive the eye candy therein. Of course, they must all be gold diggers. Women are sex objects, men are success objects and if the basic correlation still eludes you, I’m afraid I can’t be of much help.

Grown women fall for stability, security, loyalty, and commitment.

Ah, here we go – the get out of jail free card for women the world over. It’s as if chronological aging someone imbues them with these virtues. Note the choice of words. Stability, security, loyalty, commitment – all implying long term attachment for the woman. And notice how when she was just a ‘lil girl’ or ‘basic’ none of these mattered. Why is that? Could it possibly have anything to with her being younger, hotter, having more options, and able to extract resources from men an order of magnitude greater? No way!

If you’re a (halfway attractive) woman, you can’t lose with this statement. You’re welcome to bang it out with as many football players in high school as you please, hit up the clubs in college with 0 consequences, not think twice about having men pay your way in all situations, and when you notice the wall getting closer, ‘mature’ and ‘fall’ for stability, security, loyalty, and commitment – with the same guy who couldn’t snag you in your prime. He’ll be all too happy to oblige.

If you’re a man, you have two options. The first, the easy way out, is to bide your time and shack up with one of these ‘grown’ women after she’s been through a stadium of guys like me. The second, the one few choose, is to better yourself and become the man that all these girls want. Then, once you’ve had your fill, find a hot ‘lil college girl’ before she’s been used one time too many and make her yours. The sexual market is what it is and the choice is yours.